Roti,
Kapda, Mediclaim, Life Insurance, Contingency Fund aur Makaan
Please
note the blog has not been proof-read or grammatically corrected by reading it
multiples times. I had promised myself that I will write something to create
awareness around Life Insurance and Mediclaim. There couldn’t have been a more
opportune time. So I just let my thoughts flow….
June 2007, Life was great. I
was living the dream – MBA Finance got into a reputed investment bank, I was
breathing equities (something that I always loved) and had started earning as
well. All that came crashing down one fine day. My Dad had travelled to our
native for some-work and there had a small shoe bite. Shoe bite- OK so what’s
the big deal. Over next couple of days due to gross negligence on his part and
on ours that small shoe bite gradually became an infection leading to excess
carbon dioxide in his body.
When he started feeling a bit
restless we got him admitted to a local nursing centre because he never had any
other health issues. All of 25 whilst I spend the night with him I could never
guage his discomfort nor did I realize that next 60 days are probably going to
be the toughest of my life (and my family). He became more restless over next
24 hours and in swift emergency we got him admitted to Hinduja Hospital, Mahim.
As I stayed the night over, it never occurred to me that things would get so serious
over next 20 days or so. His pulse started dropping, saturation levels kept
dropping. Barrage of tests were done across organs heart, lungs, kidney etc to
figure out what was amiss. Opinions ranged from a heart problem/attack to
kidney dysfunction to lungs infection and likes. It took them almost 7-8 days
to figure out that the problem was none of these. Gradually blue marks started
appearing on his body – signs of infection and excess carbon-dioxide in the
body. By the time they figured that out the body was fast giving up and apart
from putting him on a ventilator there was no way to save him. My Mom as she
had always been was a pillar of strength. Although she feared the worst how
would she let her kids know that they might lose their father forever.
The beautiful dream just came
crashing down. Even as we feared the worst, we prayed for a miracle.
Now comes the crux of this
post. I was 25 at that time and as is the case in most Indian middle-class
households the finances were all managed by my dad with miniscule oversight by
my Mom. I had just started earning and wanted to explore the world before getting
burdened by financial planning. So here we were – the only person who had a
complete perspective about our financials was on a ventilator in a hospital and
we had no idea of how we will manage life going forward. Whilst sleeping in the
rest area for ICU patients I would be woken up from my horrid dreams by bed
number buzzers night after night only to realize that the battle is still on. This
ordeal went on for 60 days or so within which my Dad slipped onto/out of
Ventilator twice. Bills were mounting and it was all about managing the next
50k-100k to be paid.
Luckily for us 3-4 things
really helped us 1) My elder sister had been working for some-time so she had a
pool, 2) Some joint accounts had some money which could have been mobilized, 3)
God bless ICICI Bank for being aggressive on Credit Cards and issuing it to
someone with only a year or work-ex, 4) Solid family eco-system of my Dad’s
Elder Brother and other close relatives who helped us both monetarily and emotionally
to glide through this. Also despite being just one year into work I got some
phenomenal support from – Mr. Shriram Iyer (then our Head of Research),
Priyanko Rockstar Panja (my lead analyst), Sid Sanghvi (my co-analyst + brother),
Ajitesh Nair (brother) and so many other colleagues.
Suddenly at 25 – I had life
asking me so many questions all at once. There were times I felt like just
quitting this Life’s exam but eventually with the support system just hung in
there. This episode changed my whole perspective to life and to financial
planning and priorities in Life. My Dad eventually recovered after almost a 3-month
ordeal. Since my Mom used to work with Mumbai Port Trust and both of them were
covered under their scheme my Dad had never bothered to get a Mediclaim for
himself. Gravity of the situation forced us to admit him in emergency and we
could not follow the procedure as laid out by Mumbai Port Trust. It meant that
the expenses had to be borne by us with no resource to any medical aid.
The reason why im penning down
this blog in such haste is it’s the most opportune time to re-emphasize some basic
tenets of financial planning. We are in the midst of the 2nd wave of
Covid which has not only broken the healthcare eco-system in India but has
broken families, broken hearts and rendered so many kids without their parents.
The number of instances of 20-30-40 year olds losing their lives is just insane.
We are hearing so many such stories that we have almost become numb to such occurrences.
Cries for help where in a sole-bread earner has succumbed or where both parents
have succumbed leaving kids behind or where old parents have been left behind
with nobody to take care of. While I sincerely hope and pray that something of
this magnitude never happens in our lifetime there are some really important lessons
for us.
However good or bad life is it
just goes on and we have to go along with it. As I gathered myself over the
next few days in late 2007 I realized some very important lessons in life.
·
Always loop in your family/kids/close friends/anybody
trust worthy into the crux of your financials – just in case the need be for a
stormy day
·
Always have a contingency fund of at least 6-9
months of your expenses + if you can have some added on Medical contingency
fund it would be ideal
·
After
Roti n Kapda – The 2 most important things in life are Mediclaim and Life
Insurance
I cannot emphasize this
statement enough. Most people tend to undermine the whole aspect of Insurance
for health/life saying “abhi toh im young itna jaldi thodi kuch hoga”. Please
please don’t make this mistake. Even before Covid we have had umpteenth
instances in our friend circle where 30-34-38 year olds have expired to heart
attack and life doesn’t serve you a notice period. In case something untoward
is to happen to us we at-least need to protect our families against that.
Even in this wave we have
received so many requests for help to contribute towards families which have
lost their sole bread earners. Unfortunately, a lot of these guys/girls were
finance graduates and from some of the best institutes in this country
IIT/IIM/ISB and dint have a Life Insurance Policy. Back in 2007 while my Dad
was still in the hospital the first thing I did was get a Mediclaim Policy for
us 3 siblings even if it meant I would have had to borrow from relatives for
premium I would have done that.
Im not really getting into how
to approach getting a Mediclaim policy or life insurance policy in this blog.
Any of you feel the need don’t hesitate to get in touch with me. To the best of
my ability ill definitely help you out.
However please don’t forget
1. Both
Life Insurance Policy and Mediclaim is a must
2. Start
as early as possible – premiums are always lower at early age + if you don’t claim
the bonuses just keep adding up
3. This
is my personal advice – Life Insurance please stick to term plans. Don’t venture
into endowment plans. Apni Gujarati/Marwadi Buddhi ki mera paisa chala jayega
ko side main rakho aur yeh socho ki main chala gaya toh mere ghar walon ka kya
hoga
Please do help create
awareness about this amongst your Maids, Aaya, Watchmen etc. While I was
pushing so vehemently in my close circles to create awareness, unfortunately we
lost our office boy Mr. Vinay Walve to Covid-19 in May 2020. I couldn’t get him
to buy in a proper Mediclaim or Life cover else who knows if he had got proper medical
aid he might have still been with us. We are doing our best to take care of his
son’s education and chipping in wherever possible.
I just hope that the Governments/Noda
Agencies takes up Insurance/Mediclaim awareness much more seriously than Mutual
Funds Sahi Hai especially since the Covid-19 experience is fresh.
Also
given that a lot of people’s lives have been completely shattered due to Covid-19,
we will need to chip in to pull them out. Do the best you can.
“Dil bada rakho, Zindagi toh
aise hi Chotti hai”
Stay safe everyone!!! We are
in this together and we will overcome!!!